I always wonder why people have the need to belittle and make others feel like shit. What does it really accomplish? You made someones self-esteem way low. Hooray? Are you really supposed to feel good about that? I don’t see how that works really. Are you supposed to feel more powerful after? If anything it just makes you look like an ass. I don’t see how people want to actually hang out with others like that. In my opinion, and my dad said this to me before, those people should actually feel a bit embarrassed to have a friend like that.
Don’t get me wrong, I have said it a lot and I will say it again, I am no angel. I have said some mean stuff, stooped down to someones level to get back at them and all that. No one is perfect. However, I can recognize and admit my mistakes. Sadly not everyone can do this apparently. Some people seem to have no humility. Pride blinds some people. Like I said, I know that no one is perfect. Everyone says things that they are probably not proud of, but when you deliberately put someone down, that doesn’t make you cool. That just makes you look like a dick. (pardon my language) Who really wants to associate with people like this? I mean, you never know if they do the same to you behind your back! What I have also noticed is a lot of these people poke at you at what you have done. It’s like they are trying to mask their own mistakes by pointing other people’s mistakes out.
I brought this up because I’m going through it myself. I know I can handle it myself, but there are some people out there that are going through the same thing if not worse and feel so alone. You really never know what someone else is going through or has went through. You might not mean it, but that could be a trigger for them. A trigger to cut, a trigger to do another line, a trigger to drink themselves to death, a trigger to add a couple more pills to that dose. You don’t know whats going on through someones head. You don’t know what they exactly feel.
Why separate ourselves? Speaking for my generation, and the next generation coming, we shouldn’t separate ourselves like that. There is no point in that. we have so many issues already in this world. Why add more negativity to that? It’s redundant.
If you are going through something like this, someone is bothering you and saying things, don’t be scared to stand up for yourself. Let them know that you aren’t going to just sit back and take it. Tell them straight up that you’re too good for this. If you feel like you’re alone going through it, no you are not at all. It’s sad but it’s seriously going on around the world. You aren’t the only one getting picked on. If you need advice and you feel like you have nowhere to turn to, I’m here. I don’t care if it seems like the smallest thing, if it’s bothering you, don’t be scared to talk about it. I’m here for anyone that is going through a hard time. Instead of separating ourselves, lets come together. Maybe with that little bit of change, we can make this a place where we don’t have to be afraid of being ourselves, or making mistakes, or even doing what we like to do.
“I know, I know I’m not right
But I’ve got my whole life
And that’s alright with me”
– Hollywood Undead